The Enslavement of Perceived Obligations 
(Excerpt from Wynn Free's work)

We can't go through life in 3d without having relationships of obligation.  But relationships of grace do not have obligation attached to them.  Do you have any relationships of grace in your life?  Try to visualize what it would take to have a relationship of grace...

Ra/Wilcock: "We have all experienced these times where we feel obligated to do something for someone, either physical or non-physical.  It is more important to try to be true to yourself, to live up to the ideals that you have already espoused in your dealings with others, and to then expect others to follow their own paths without adopting yours.  The enslavement of perceived obligation knows no bounds within the developing personality, and such is presently the case with so many aspects and facets of your society that it beggars the imagination.  One charged political example would be: If something bad happens to you, then you should seek infinite justice against those who did it, and against everyone who supports them." 

This is an excerpt from Chapter 17 of the Reincarnation of Edgar Cayce? The chapter is entitled "Healing the Original Wound."  http://www.returnofedgar.com/