Open to the heart, and the guidance flows. You are not a "decider;" you are an energetic truth. So be the truth you are. Give yourself fully to what is inside of you, and respond to the world from that place. You will not need categories; you will only need truth of connection with deep self. That is the way to discern. Give yourself your own trust. Trust yourself deeply. 

Excerpt from Wynn Free's work

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